What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard form and fixed outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, constantly with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, ecstatic state of being. The result is typically a wonderful physical, psychological wellness. Typically, the receiver is really relaxed, splendidly flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. The majority of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is really love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about a fixed outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the technique or the wanted sequence of massaging that is very important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the minute? What benefits her/him? Love understands what to do, enjoy always has a proper action. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Enough is that the giver exists and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take an extremely unexpected course. Everything suits a larger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in a terrific advancement.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We knew it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear borders in advance
It is a misconception that a tantric massage should always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also entirely ok (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (mutual) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important function once again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), however usually, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different methods to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: bring back the natural (happy) state of being.
Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, mental wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically great, sometimes delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and strategies in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (focused on healing).
Well since you are actually very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand apart:
Tantra massage pointers-- prior to you begin
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however also mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* As soon as in a while ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) moments.
Demand Lodon Tantric totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Again, don't attempt to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and offer combination moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully streaming life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the same as recovery, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover what it resembles to love yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that provides a wonderfully liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The whole body participates.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) limits.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being (of both).